Why values are important in life and how they benefit you.

What values are, why values are important, and how to create your own list of core values.

Values are important in life because they influence our behavior, personality, attitude, thoughts, and decision-making.

Although our values are partly shaped by society, there is a part of us that remains the same, even as we experience changes within ourselves, our relationships with others, and our interactions with the world.

Values have a purpose in our lives, which is to guide our actions so they are in alignment with our beliefs.  They also connect us to the core of who we are.

In this blog post, I will discuss what values are, why they're important, how they are formed, how they benefit you, and how to make a list of your own personal core values.

The importance of values

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What are values?

When you think of the word value, what comes to mind?  You'd probably think of a top value in your life or define it as something of importance.  And you'd be right!

According to the Oxford Language definition, a value is "the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something."  For example, something that you value could be your family or integrity.

When values, thoughts, feelings, and actions are in alignment, a person becomes focused and character becomes strengthened. - John C. Maxwell

Values are something that we aspire towards, like a goal.  Values can also be learned and change according to one's environment.  This means that they can be dynamic, adaptable, and applicable to any behavior or situation.

They can be divided into different categories and subcategories, such as self-transcendence, openness to change, conservation, and self-enhancement.  Examples are:  benevolence, humility, self-direction, action, conformity, security, power, and dominance.

Values can also influence and guide our behavior and personality.

Values as they relate to our behavior and personality.

According to the studies, values can predict behavior and personality.  They are more accepted by an individual if a person can easily recognize their own values, especially if they align with their personality.

How values are formed.

Values are changeable because they are influenced by society and the people we are closest to.  They are formed from the time we are born, but we get to choose the values that resonate with us at any given point and situation in our life that would be most useful to us.

Values can come from:

Family:  spouse, parents, siblings, grandparents, extended relatives.
Peers:  friends, colleagues, acquaintances.
Authority figures:  teachers, employers, religious leaders.
Society:  neighbors, community, environment.
Media:  influencers, people with power or clout, celebrities.
Writing:  books, literature, fiction, non-fiction.

The importance of values.

Values are important because they guide you and give you a greater sense of direction and purpose in life.

Why you need to define your values.

It is important to define what your values are they can help you focus on the things that matter most to you in life.  Also, if someone or something came around to challenge your values, you'll be less likely to doubt or second guess yourself.

When you define your values, you have to be honest with yourself.  This requires awareness, patience, and self-compassion.

A personal lesson learned about the importance of values.

When I was pregnant with my first child, I came down with a terrible cold and I did not want to take any drugs (even over-the-counter ones) because of my baby.  After much research, I came across an article for natural home remedies.

The article suggested an unconventional approach to help get rid of my cold without any medications.  The process involved drinking hot orange juice and doing 15-minute steam baths every day until my cold disappeared.

Though I thought it was weird, I wanted to try it because my top value was my family and I wanted to do everything to protect my son's health.  The "treatment" worked and it was a small but significant lesson learned on the importance of values.

"To me, I think the core values that will help create the world that we're striving to live in are constant." - Maya Harris

How values benefit you.

We need values because they guide our behavior, attitude, personality, and choices.  Here are some reasons why values are important in our lives and how they are beneficial to your health and well-being.

Values help you discover your passions and purpose in life.

Your purpose in life is the reason why you got up this morning.  When they are aligned with your core values, your passions and purpose in life give you direction and meaning.   It can help you during times that are challenging.

Aligning your values with your purpose in life can help you live a life that is meaningful to you.  For example, if your top value is creativity, you can find the things in life that bring out your creativity and this, in turn, helps you live a more purposeful life.

Values contribute to your happiness and success.

People with a high sense of their values can articulate themselves well and their values align with their personality.  They generally have healthier self-esteem than people who don't have a good sense of what their values are.

People who have a lower sense of what their values are, tend to have lower self-esteem than people who have higher levels.  They are also more likely to have values that are in opposition to their personality, place blame on others, and have greater internal tension.

Those who prioritize eudaimonic values like friendship, family, and community are generally happier than those who prioritize extrinsic values like money, power, educational attainment, work, health, and leisure.

Values help you make decisions and prioritize.

Values help you make decisions by prioritizing what is most important in your life.  These are the things that will have a direct and immediate impact on your life, like choosing a career or starting a family.

Knowing your core values enables you to stay focused on the things that bring meaning, joy, and happiness to your life.

The key to genuine happiness is in our hands.  To think this way is to discover the essential values of kindness, brotherly love, and altruism.  The more cleary we see the benefits of these values, the more we will seek to reject; anything that opposes them; in this way we will be able to bring about inner transformation. - HH the 14th Dalai Lama

Questions to ask yourself to discover your values.

Self-inquiry is a way to help you dig down deep so you can find your own personal core values.

What makes me excited?  This is the reason why you get up every morning and gives you meaning and purpose in life. 

Who do I look up to?  This person has qualities that you want to possess or you admire.

Why did I choose my significant other?  You may not always agree on everything, but there are some attributes that you share with your life partner.

Why did I choose my career?  Your career choice is usually an indicator of your core values.

What would I be doing if time and money were not a factor?  This could be something you've always dreamed of being or doing; or something that you already know about but don't have the means right now to pursue.

When did I face adversity or a challenge?  This can be something that you overcame and learned from that was difficult and challenging.

"There are three values:  Feel good, be good, and do good." - Harbhajan Singh Yogi

Types and categories of values.

There are so many values in the world that differ across race, nationality, culture, religion, creed, etc.

The following is a list of values according to different types of categorizing systems that I hope will simplify the different types and categories of values.  There is a table below this list to use as a quick reference for yourself.  Though not complete, you can use the following values that resonate with or inspire you.

Examples of values:

Intrinsic or personal values.

These are valuable not because of what they can bring, but simply for what they are.

Artistic expression

Universal values

These are principles that people across the world are expected to abide by.

Value of human life

Human values

These values are fundamental to human nature to make life smooth and happy.

Friendly nature
Good behavior

Religious values

This is a person's belief that acts as a higher power or guide for what is good and what makes a person happy.


Moral values

These enable us to follow the correct and right path


Spiritual values

Principles that allow a person to follow philosophical beliefs and thoughts.


Political values

These values pertain to a person's feeling of patriotism.

National unity

Social Values

These values make it possible for people to live together and for each other.

Worry for others
Care for others

Educational values

This allows for the growth of a person's knowledge and understanding.


Aesthetic values

This is an appreciation for beauty and beautiful things.


Scientific values

This allows us to test, analyze, and verify data, knowledge, etc.


Table of values

Examples of values

Writing your own personal core values.

Make a list of your top core values.  Describe any thoughts or feelings that you associate with each value.  Now rank your values, placing the most important one at the top.

After you've written your personal core values, you can reassess them periodically.  The position of each value may change as you transition through each phase of your life.  You might even add a new value or take one away, depending on where you are at in your life.

Writing out your personal core values is important because it provides a reference point for your purpose in life.  Your values and purpose in life work together to create a life that is happier and more meaningful to you.

"Your core values are the deeply held beliefs that authentically describe your soul." - John C. Maxwell

Final thoughts on values.

Values are important because they influence our behavior and personality.  They are unique, intrinsic beliefs that everyone possesses.  But they are also shaped by our life experiences, relationships, and what we glean from society.

If you don't know what your values are, you can feel lost, doubt your choices, and have less confidence in yourself.  People who know what their values are and act according to them are happier and lead lives that are more meaningful.

Some examples of values are altruism, recognition, cleanliness, authenticity, equality, mercy, obedience, peace, family, and money.

I hope that you found this helpful.  If you have any feedback, let me know in the comments!

Christine Songco is the creator of Third Bliss and is passionate about helping others thrive holistically by finding their purpose and living life with more authenticity and joy. Christine has been featured in WebMD, Thrive Global, Authority Magazine, Philips Lifeline, Owl Guru, and The Lifestyle Blogger UK.

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